Saturday, February 1, 2020

When Adults Crush that Way, Part I


You stack a pair of problems—so determined by dilemmas—so confused by chaos. Your name is Robert. This mirror has been maddening. This fuel has been insufferable. You chance a feeling, while loopy on liquor, and Angelica says, “You’re just drunk—this is not love.” What a mistake; to have waited so long, to have played the mannequin, and then all eyes on your folly.

You were reading when the phone jingled. It was Angelica; although you had surprised her with an overture, she was curious and quite nice: “You are delirious, Robert—what were you thinking?” You don’t link the pieces. You feel uneasy. But Angelica says, “You’re off the hook.” You chuckle, make a joke, and end the call.

There are insecurities running races. There are excuses against reaching for joy.

Angelica is sweet, vivacious, radiant and spunky. She is smart and sassy. But she has been on and off with Jeremy for the last two years. Nevertheless, Angelica writes about you in her diary. She places notations by your name. It is hard to ignore, Angelica, especially, when she is with Jeremy. They look comfortable, but not thrown into each other. You smile at them, shoot a few darts, and drink a few beers. This beer thing is mostly ritual, or feelings churning, or a battle with internal chaos. You have always been a brooder, and mulling, that person just drifting and feeling his intestines. However, Angelica often rescues you, saying nice things, and sharing in your thoughts. You really admire her, this creative woman, this perpetual friend.

Jeremy has been jealous of you and Angelica. This friendship is bothering him. You’ve known Angelica longer, but Jeremy doesn’t seem to honor that. Last week at the local bar, Jeremy comes up to you: “What’s going on, Robert?” You nod but your senses are tingling. Jeremy continues: “You and Angelica are close, she speaks about you often, are you interested in her?” You say, “Jeremy, Angelica is dear to me, and I respect her decision to be with you—let’s leave it at that.” But Jeremy is uncertain about what he just heard. As he goes to speak further, Angelica comes over: “What are you two whisper about?” she says. And Jeremy walks away.

You tell Angelica this place that Jeremy is in. Angelica darts for Jeremy: “What the hell are you going through? We’ve discussed this several times. I asked you to let it go.” Jeremy chuckles and flashes a facetious smile. Then he says: “Your friend has feelings for you—don’t you, Robert?” But before you could speak, Angelica was there in that space: “Jeremy, leave it alone, Robert was drunk.” But Jeremy needed more. He needed for this friendship to cancel itself. But neither you or Angelica were about to do that. Angelica speaks: “Jeremy, I love you, but you are going too far—should we just take a break?” This meant another separation, and Jeremy agreed.

Angelica comes to you. She cries a little, but nothing too much. You two talk. You like her hairline. You like her hands and cuticles. Jeremy is watching. His energy is loud. Angelica glances over at him. They hold eye-contact, and then she looks away. You imagine if you were Jeremy—how sick you’d be. But you need to be present for Angelica.        

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